Maintaining a Close Bond With Your Dad When You’re Overseas
Whether you’ve been transferred for work or are stationed overseas, keeping in touch with your dad doesn’t have to be difficult. Maintaining a close bond with him is still possible. It may take a little more work on your parts, but these steps will help.
Have a Local Network Near Him
Senior Care in Wilmette, IL: Family Bonds Overseas
Being so far away, you may feel nervous that he lives alone. Make sure there is a local network of people you trust near him. You can talk to them to make sure he’s doing okay. If he needs anything, you know there is someone nearby.
Make sure everyone in that network has your contact information. Include email, phone, and chat options so that people can reach you no matter where you are. You might be on a work call and unable to take a call, so they could send you a message via Google Hangouts. You might be asleep, so email makes it easy for them to get hold of you in the morning.
Video Chat and Talk Often
Video chats and phone calls are the best way to maintain a close bond. He can hear your voice and see your face. You”ll be able to see and hear the same and know if something seems off. If you are concerned, you can tap into the local network of people to check on him.
You’ll also want to tap into that local network of friends and family members to help him set up a video chat if he’s not savvy when it comes to technology. If you have siblings helping him out, you could chat to them at the same time.
Be Old Fashioned and Write Letters
Emails are one thing. Letters may take longer to reach your dad, but seeing your handwriting can make a difference. It will mean a lot to him to get a card, letter, or postcard from you. Involve him in your life overseas in those letters. Let him know what you’re doing when you have free time. Share with him your favorite local meals.
You may not be able to stop in every day, but senior care aides can. Talk to an agency about your dad’s needs when it comes to aging at home. Does he need help with meals and grocery shopping? Would he benefit from laundry and housekeeping assistance? A senior care specialist will help you schedule the right services to ensure your dad remains independent at home.
If you or an aging loved one are considering Senior care in Wilmette, IL, contact the caring staff at Companion Services of America today at (847) 943-3786. Our home care service area includes Northbrook, Highland Park, Deerfield, Glenview, Buffalo Grove, Evanston, Des Plaines, Skokie, Lake Forest, Wilmette and the surrounding areas.
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